Trained in clinical psychology in New York, I offer English-speaking therapy for individuals and couples in Stockholm.

Tama Lane, Ph.D.

People come to therapy for many reasons. You may be navigating a major transition, struggling with anxiety or the effects of past experiences, questioning parts of your identity, or finding yourself caught in relationship patterns that are difficult to change.

Living across cultures can add another layer. Even a life that appears settled from the outside may involve dislocation, loneliness, competing identities, relationship strain, or the feeling that you are no longer quite sure where—or how—you belong.

I work with adults and couples from international and Swedish backgrounds, including expats and cross-cultural couples. Many come to therapy wanting to understand what is happening beneath the surface, work through patterns that keep repeating, and create meaningful change in how they relate to themselves and to others.

My approach is emotionally attuned, culturally informed, and grounded in both psychological science and lived experience. Therapy with me is thoughtful and engaged: a space to look honestly at what is happening, make sense of the experiences and dynamics shaping your life, and develop new ways of relating and responding.

Modern therapy for complex lives.
Culturally aware. Internationally Informed.

English-speaking therapist in Stockholm Dr. Tama Lane

English-speaking therapy in Stockholm for people seeking greater clarity, deeper self-understanding, and new ways forward.


My Approach to Therapy

Integrative & Evidence-Based

I offer therapy for individuals and couples using an integrative approach grounded in clinical psychology. My work draws from psychodynamic, relational, emotionally focused, and cognitive-behavioral approaches, allowing therapy to respond to the person rather than follow a single method.

I pay close attention to patterns—particularly those that may once have helped you adapt but no longer serve you. Together, we work to understand what shaped them, how they are showing up now, and what might allow something different to emerge.

Thoughtful, Active & Engaged

Therapy with me is collaborative and engaged. I listen closely, ask questions, offer perspective, and help make connections between what you understand intellectually and what happens emotionally and relationally in everyday life.

Insight matters, but insight alone is not always enough. Our work is also about developing greater flexibility in how you respond—to yourself, to other people, and to the circumstances you cannot always control—so that change becomes something you can experience and live, not simply understand.

No two people arrive in therapy with the same history, relationships, strengths, or needs. I adapt our work accordingly—whether you need focused support around something happening now or space for deeper, longer-term exploration.

The pace and direction of therapy develop through our work together, with attention to what feels most important, what may be difficult to put into words, and what begins to shift over time.

Therapy That Responds to You

Therapy Support Services

Individual Therapy

Individual therapy offers space to understand what may be happening beneath anxiety, overwhelm, relationship difficulties, identity concerns, or periods of significant change. Together, we explore the experiences and patterns shaping your emotional life and work toward greater clarity, steadiness, and self-trust.

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Men’s Wellness

Men often enter therapy carrying pressures that have been difficult to name—around identity, relationships, achievement, fatherhood, masculinity, or the expectation to manage things alone. Therapy offers a space to understand those pressures while developing greater emotional flexibility, connection, and choice.

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Couples Therapy

I work with couples experiencing recurring conflict, emotional distance, communication difficulties, betrayal, or major transitions. Therapy helps us slow down what happens between you, understand the needs and patterns beneath the conflict, and develop more connected and sustainable ways of relating.

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Trauma-Informed Care

Past experiences can continue to shape how you feel, relate, respond to stress, and protect yourself in the present. Trauma-informed therapy helps make sense of these responses with care and context, while supporting greater safety, integration, and freedom in how you move through your life.

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Where We Meet

You’re welcome to meet with me in person in central Stockholm, Sveavägen 35, or online from anywhere in Sweden. If you’re living abroad, coaching services may also be available.

Some clients value the grounding presence of in-person sessions; others appreciate the ease and flexibility of virtual meetings. We’ll decide together what works best for your life and schedule.

Wherever we meet, our work remains secure and confidential.

Client Testimonials

  • “When I realized that I was carrying an underlying burden and that my previous coping mechanisms would not suffice, I understood that finding the right therapist would be crucial. In Tama, I discovered a compassionate and insightful guide who helped me gain a deeper understanding of myself. The work has been challenging at times, yet I have always felt that her practice is grounded in empathy and entirely free of judgement. While I recognize that much work remains, I now have a clearer understanding of the man I am and the man I am becoming. Most importantly, I no longer perceive myself as a problem to be solved, but as an individual to explore—with curiosity, care, and without judgement.”

    — Christophe, Stockholm

  • “We came to therapy carrying a lot of history from our own childhoods, and it was affecting how we understood each other. Working with Tama helped us slow down and recognize the patterns we were bringing into the relationship. At times the sessions were painful and even explosive, but Tama didn’t let us avoid the difficult moments. She noticed what was happening beneath the surface and helped us stay in the conversation.”

    — A Couple, Stockholm

  • “Moving to a new country was something I had wanted for a long time, but it turned out to be harder emotionally than I expected. I often felt lonely and a bit lost, even though things looked good on the surface. Talking with Tama helped me make sense of what I was going through. She really understands what it’s like to live between cultures, and that made our conversations feel very real and relatable.”

    — Anna, Stockholm

  • “I came to therapy during a time when work and life felt overwhelming, but what surprised me most was how quickly Tama was able to notice patterns in my thinking and behavior that had been following me for years. She has a sharp ability to connect the dots without making you feel judged. Those insights helped me understand myself in a way I hadn’t before.”

    — Mark, Stockholm

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